Obsess Much?

October 18, 2010

I have a confession to make. I have been secretly obsessing over clothes for the past month.

“No biggie!” you might say. But it is. When I say obsessing, I mean it. I seriously thought about clothes most of the day every single day for at least a month. It’s so bad. Here’s the thing. I knew I was going to come into some money (by way of my birthday) and because I am on a limited budget*, I wanted to spend it on the right things.

I used to be a carefree shopper, but when I married my husband, I realized how important my purchases are (mainly because he cut me off) and started making better decisions. But this has caused one major problem. I obsess.

I obsessed about a certain pair of brown boots for at least 30 days. (Are you laughing? Because I am!) 30 DAYS! And I’m pretty sure if I mentioned them again to Bob, he’d tackle me.

I finally fessed up and told my friends and realized they do it too! My friend Anna (that’s right Anna, I’m taking you down with me!) told me that one night we went out she obsessed all day over what she was going to wear! My friend Gertrude (and you too, Gertie!) spends like 10 minutes trying on one item deciding if she’s going to buy it or not. She sits, she stands, puts her hands in her pockets, walks around the room, squats, does a quick yoga workout, etc. My little sister cries almost every time we go shopping, or even talk about clothes! Seriously.

Wow! Talking it through is making me not feel so bad about my horrible boot obsession! So, tell me, do you do this too? Are you as crazy as me?

*When I say budget, I don’t mean I have to call my husband before I buy something. I mean I have a certain amount I can spend each month and after it’s gone, it’s gone.*

Gap T-shirt

American Eagle Necklace

Yes, I absolutely am in a Rose garden! One  of my favorite spots!

BB Dakota Skirt

Aldo Boots

Jenny Present Neckalce

Check it out Kendi! I found a bamboo forest! Bob insisted we take a pic for you since we were in love with your shots. :)

H&M Sweater

T-shirt: Gap
Sweater: H&M
Skirt: BB Dakota from a local botique
Boots: Aldo
Necklaces: American Eagle & Jenny Present
Sunglasses: Banana Republic

  • Anna

    Haha! I obsess too…as you already know! Clothes & shopping are just too fun and if you want to spend your money wisely then you wanna make sure you make the right decisions!
    Love the skirt!

  • http://elizabethashleyphoto.blogspost.com Elizabeth

    I’m right there with you! Any free thinking time I have, I’m thinking about clothes or shoes and what I need to go look at or buy next. I spend a lot of time in the fitting rooms, and then when I take something home, I have to try it on again at least 1 or 2 times with other stuff I own before I decide if I’m keeping it or returning it. It’s a sickness but it’s good to know we all aren’t alone! :-)

  • http://merciblahblah.blogspot.com merciblahblah

    Girlfriend – YES. And it’s worse since I have been blogging. That’s why I have been making a concerted effort to hit up thrift stores more lately. I sometimes lay awake at night thinking of different combinations of clothing in my closet and how to style them. I also have the “obsession problem.” I mean for real. If I get something in my head that I want, I CANNOT get it out. I am trying to ignore the obsession that keeps creeping in about a rose-gold Michael Kors man-style watch. At least until Christmas.

    Shan

  • http://merciblahblah.blogspot.com merciblahblah

    P.S.
    LOVE the outfit, the photos, and those BOOTS. Guh. You have the best scenery in your photos – gorgeous!

  • http://rosealamode.com Linda

    Ahh, so good to know ou all do it too! I’m glad I’m not alone!

  • http://theauspiciouslife.com Linda W

    I love the skirt and the fact that you paired it with a simple white shirt. You look great and the photos are amazing, especially the last one. Beautiful!

  • http://www.inspiredpics.com InspiredGertie

    hahhahaha
    i totally do what merciblahblah does & think about different cominations of things in my closet if i don’t already know what i’m putting on for an event or outting coming up the next day. i have a lot of clothes & i know it…but i still get into wearing my new favorites a lot…sometimes i challenge myself to wear things that i haven’t worn in a long time…it’s refreshing!
    i love how you described my fitting room habits – i think the reason that i do that is b/c i don’t come as prepared as you. haha i don’t spend time researching things i want & where they are ahead of time – so the fitting room is the place where most of my decisions are made about the pieces i may be investing my hard earned money into. :)
    love you Linda & ALL of these photos in your SASSY outfit!

  • jamey

    Well, as your little sister, you have to explain that the reason i cry is not because i am obsessed about clothing. That’s why i’m on this site- i need to change my ways. (Well that and your my sister.) I need to go a little closer on the obsessing side and not the avoiding side. I’m sure there has to be a balance in there for me!
    I’m getting better. the last time we went rummaging through my closet, i didn’t cry! Small steps, small steps.

  • http://inkinseyscloset.blogspot.com In Kinsey’s Closet

    I love love love these pictures! I found you on weardrobe and I am happy I did. The shot of you on the brick fence if perfect!

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